Here’s something we can all agree on. The older you get, the more experiences you have including the good, the bad and the losses. Aging is a great gift and when times get tough, you learn strategies that strengthen your resilience muscles. Just like the German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche is quoted as saying, “What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.”
Resilience is what I admire most about my older adult clients. That ability to move through life’s challenges, to adapt to difficult situations, mentally and emotionally while learning, growing and becoming stronger. One of my MoveMor “frequent fliers” is a gal 92 years of age who recently lost her 67-year-old daughter. When I asked her how she was doing after class last week with sadness and a smile she said, “You have to deal with the cards that you’re dealt.” So true and you need strategies to manage your health emotionally, mentally and physically.
It is such a blessing and privilege to work with older adults who have incredible experiences, stories and wisdom to share.
At 61 years of age, I am blessed to be in great health and happily married for 33 years! My husband and I have raised three children who are amazing young adults living their lives. Now, in a couple of short weeks the nest will be empty. It’s a big transition time that doesn’t get a lot of discussion, but it should. It’s a time for reflection and big adjustments. Transitions are difficult as you feel the sand shifting under your feet. It feels unstable and uncomfortable.
Everyone talks about the “empty nest” but I didn’t anticipate our children living far from home. Two are living on the central coast of California. They love the beach, having a 10-minute commute to work and access to fantastic fresh foods at the farmer’s markets.
Now my baby boy is 6’3” and 22 years of age who graduated 4 months ago with his degree in architecture. He landed a fantastic internship in New York City. I am so happy for him as this is an amazing opportunity, but I am going to miss him, especially being so far away.
It’s so wonderful seeing your children grow and become adults. As a parent, the most important thing is for your children to be happy and healthy. They are happy which makes me happy. But it’s still tough when they leave and fly far from the nest. That’s hard for mama bears.
Now I have that same sense of sadness and cry like I did before each of my children left home to pursue their dreams. There is that sinking pit in my stomach, muscle tightness, and sleep disturbances surrounding the dreaded anticipation of him leaving. Our nest will be truly empty for the first time and our adult children will be on the west and east coast!
This is a big transition time in my life, filled with emotions and the need for reflection. Our time on this earth is finite. Nothing is permanent so enjoy and relish each precious moment that you have with those you love.
When tough times and losses come your way, give yourself grace. Emotions have a huge impact on health and should be acknowledged, not buried or ignored. Take time for yourself. Process how and why you are feeling the way you do and nurture yourself.
Practicing these strategies means you can stay centered and feel strong emotionally, mentally and physically. Resilience is a muscle. Relish the wisdom and strength that grows with age. A practical tip that my therapist shared with me is,
“Remember, no matter what happens to you, you can handle it.”
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